The way you see the world, is the way you see yourself.
The story you tell yourself about yourself, is a self-fulfilling prophesy.
If you think life is hard, good stuff happens to bad people and you constantly have to prove yourself in order to “achieve happiness”, then that will always be true for you.
In order to create change in your life, in order to allow things to be “easy”, you need to review your own story. You need to look at the facts and see if you really interpreted them correctly all this time. What else could those facts mean?
The events and experiences in your life shape your character, beliefs and attitude. If the meaning you have attached to them holds you back in your life, then it’s worth re-interpreting them with a more beneficial meaning and re-telling your story in a way that makes sense and is believable to you.
That takes some work, yes. It means taking off layers of limiting beliefs. It means questioning rules that you have made up for yourself and lived by all your life. It means questioning who you think you really are!
The outcome, though, is so worth it. The true story that you will uncover is always more beautiful than the one you’ve been telling yourself so far.
When you connect with your true essence – confidence, creativity, inspiration and meaning just offer themselves to you. Magic happens and your next step suddenly becomes very clear.
There’ll be no need to look in all the wrong places anymore.
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Last week, two of my clients told me they quit their jobs and will go travelling for a few months. One doesn’t know if she’ll ever come back.
I admire the courage and confidence they have developed in less than a year and I love hanging out with women who don’t accept “semi-happiness”! I’m amazed how they took responsibility and turned “reacting to circumstances” into “creating the life they want”.
You can do it, too.
Don’t settle for less!
Contact Anja if you want to change your story, too.